hate

Hate is a prolonged form of suicide.
Douglas V. Steere


"You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do."
Anne Lamott

perfectionism

"Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life..."

Anne Lamott
from Bird By Bird